People Come & Go

But sometimes, the universe decides to align your stars with these special people and create more memories with them.

This holds true with the classmates I had interacted with since the day I couldn't spell Mississippi (well, I don't think I can spell it until now without the auto-correct). We hangout around our little campus innocently, without realizing how we can play an important role in each other. Then, life happens. We chose our own paths to take and we journey with a lot of new people. Maybe, along the way we forgot what it's been like to have fun with the kids in that small school.

I cannot just emphasize how grateful I am for Facebook that I got a chance to be reunited with the people who I practically grow up with. Indeed, friendship knows no time and distance. Sila yung mga taong, willing na nakipaglaro sa akin noon kahit hindi pa ako gaanong kagandahan at patpatin pa. Ngayon, willing pa rin silang mag-take ng pictures ko dahil alam nilang ikakaligaya ko 'yun. Tapos pag nagkwentuhan kayo, parang kahapon lang kayo nagkita pero sa totoo lang andami nang nagbago. Imagine that's two decades ago or so. Super swerte ko talaga :)

Thank you for all the love! Cheers to life-long friendship and know that I will genuinely be happy for every milestone in your lives. Hopefully, I get to celebrate some with you :)

BFFing since 1988!
Kat is my neighbor and classmate. She migrated to the US when we were 4. We exchanged letters but lost touch in college. Got reconnected through Facebook then we planned a trip to Boracay in 2011. She asked me to be one of her bridesmaids at her wedding last September 2014 and I couldn't be more thrilled! :)

Her lola & my mom hang out a lot while waiting for Twinkle and I to finish classes at the preparatory school. She's always the most beautiful girl in school and I'm lucky to call her my friend. Got reunited with her and Kat in Boracay and in California when I visited last September. Oh, I'm one of the ninangs of her little girl, Abby <3

We're more like enemies growing up - let's just say I threw away his shoes because I was so pissed at him, That's my last memory of Sanny (okay, we were in Grade 2 or 3). Until, he went back to the Philippines for a vacation in 2013 and he kinda figured out a way to contact me. A year after, I went to NYC for vacation and we hangout at Central Park over beer. He was too kind to accommodate me for 2 weeks! :)

Shivone is a classmate from grade school and we've been each other's lunch date. We tried to keep in touch even after she decided to transfer in a different school and finally, to the US. I think, we SMS-ed each other every time she comes back for a vacation but never really found time to catch up. So happy we got to celebrate our singleness by traveling around San Diego and Las Vegas last year! 

High school never ends! JM is a close friend and my partner in crime. I miss having this guy around when I went to the University. And it feels good to catch up with him after 11 years while we travel around LA. Thanks for being my yaya boss!!! :P

Friendship is born at that moment when one man says to another: "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself..." --- C.S. Lewis

To lasting friendships,

Keevee

My Thoughts on the Papal Visit

Monday. 19th of Januay 2015 (lifted from my Facebook post)

And the Philippines just concluded the inspiring, encouraging, world-breaking (record of people) / changing papal visit. Here are my thoughts, if you may allow me to share:

1. Hooray! The 3 days off work is a much-needed break from my overwhelming workload this start of the year. I am thankful and happy to have spent the days with family and friends in Baguio.
The Pope encouraged us to dream for our families, to protect the beauty and truth of the family in God's plan and to support and be examples to other families as well. This is exactly my purpose of taking my own family on a trip. Because QUALITY TIME means QUANTITY TIME spent with family meaningfully - getting to know each of them more and strengthening our values as one family in Christ. In my quiet times, I prayed to God to bless us and reign over us in all our ways. Maybe next time, I can boldly pray with them too. God works in our midst!

2. Pope Francis is known to be simple yet I think we went overboard with all the merchandise that are Pope-related. I hope the profits we made from these were used to advance God's kingdom.
While it is always good to help others through our wealth, may we always focus our giving to the love of God. Remember, we are only channels of blessings to others. God blessed us to bless others. And that the Gospel is the greatest gift a person can ever receive.

3. Why does the media or us people have to tweak the message of the Pope? While we may be confused about issues of society today on LGBT and same sex marriage... all the more we should seek the truth and understand what the Bible truly says about it. While we do so, we are not entitled to judge/condemn the gays and the lesbians. Our response should be leading our brothers and sisters to Jesus. Only Jesus can save/change us!

4. I am not sure how to feel about Pnoy's supposed welcoming message to the Pope. It is not something that we expected and we have far better list of "petitions or intentions". With this, I urge each and every one of us to pray ceaselessly for the Philippines and our leaders. Let us stop putting the blame on them and act upon what we see/hear by praying. While they are already the ones elected and appointed as of this time, that they may encounter Jesus in their lives and that they can have a heart of a servant like Him. Of course, praying is only one thing but let us underestimate its power!
Side note: If we want change, be the change we want to be. Start by taking part of the elections also! Pwede na magrehistro as early as now.

5. If our spirituality can help us be disciplined in 5 days, why not carry this out in our daily lives? May we choose Jesus moment by moment so that the Holy Spirit can live in us and direct us in all our ways - even those that are not seen by others.

6. As Pope Francis said, he is not the center of the event but it is God. May we worship the only one true God!

7. The most impactful message he left to each of us is to be missionaries of the Gospel. To be brave in letting others about God's love. Wherever we are - whether we are running our own business, working for a company, still studying or doing a home-based job... that is our mission field. We do not have any excuse not letting others know about Jesus.

Start of the Year 2015

And here I go again... at the start of the year, revisiting this space and trying to rekindle my love for writing. Can you cross fingers with me too? That I stay committed and consistent with this. Please?

We are always hopeful and excited of what the new year will bring or where it will take us this time. We make lists of goals and resolutions. We refocus on what's necessary and purge whatever burden (or maybe fats too?) we had in the past. We plan our travels in every official holiday in the Philippine calendar. We like to be better versions of ourselves.

The Daykeeper 2015

As I write my faith goals for 2015, nothing came out from my heart. Are my dreams and desires dead already? Am I willing to settle again on what this world could offer? Have I lost faith to not even know what I'm believing for God will do in my life this year? There was a feeling of discomfort because I am not being myself. But, God reminded that setting aside those bullet points I have already received the greatest blessing by accepting Jesus in my life. Whether my faith goals are answered with a bold YES or a YES BUT NOT NOW or a NO because God has a better plan, the love of Lord for me never change. His promises will be fulfilled not because of my own efforts but because of His character as a promise-keeping God.

My prayer to God is to help me write my list of faith goals that manifests more of Him and less of me. Dude, it was tough! As I wrestle with my human selfish desires, I kept on pressing on and on to God with a cry for help. To deny myself in order for God to work in my midst. During the Day 2 of Prayer and Fasting, God did not disappoint. Like water in the stream, God's help kept flowing and to my delight He impressed me with big, courageous goals. Exciting, happy times! All might seem to be like a blur right now, but I will hold on to that faith that all will be possible because of Him. All I need is to do is to honor Him with my choices and in everything I do, even in the way I think. As Pastor Joshua said, "He is a God of new beginnings. He is a God of perfect endings."

Here's my core inspirational verse and theme for 2015.

Indeed, God alone is my greatest reward. All others are just bonuses!

To God be all the glory,

Keevee

On being Busy

I came from a humble home of hard-working parents. Their back story as former working students to help their families is a clear indicator of how they added value to the limited hours of each day while keeping their eyes are fixed of earning a college diploma. Lucky for me and my brother, we didn't need to find a job while in studying and are privileged to have attended good schools in our province. Our only task is to do the best that we can whatever season we are in - to study well and learn more than the lessons taught inside the classroom.

Growing up, I thought I have unlimited time to spend. I thought living a full life means keeping my days with full schedule. Back when I was living with my parents... pre-college years, my days are quite simple. Pray, eat, sleep, study, play, clean then repeat. Fast forward when I entered college, I felt like the world welcomed me with so much opportunities. I always take full units every semester wanting to finish college in less than four years or maybe I could learn more subjects. I joined every organization that fits my interest.. you name it! I say yes to every friend's invitation with the fear of missing out if I pass. I was living independently so going home exhausted from all the activities, my body still need to finish my household chores - cleaning, doing the laundry, cooking and you know, the not-so-glamorous works. 

All these, by doing GOOD at almost EVERYTHING. I was deceived by the enemy. I was brainwashed that doing good at everything makes me a better person to myself and to others. By saying yes to everything will make me happier. Haven't I known that good is the enemy of best? That being good at everything will make me great of nothing. 

Just a few weeks back, it hit me hard when God reminded me once again that I needed to pause from all the works I committed myself in. I am being tagged as a busy person and I'm not liking that either. I know, God just wants me to be better at simplifying my life while doing great at what is important and value-adding. Joyce Meyer, one of my favorite writers wrote a powerful message, "I have committed to learn to do things in God's rhythm, not the world's pace." 

My prayer is that we shall live every day full of God rather than be fooled by the fullness of our schedule.

Goodbye, blurry photos!

Yes, that's right. No more painful, not Instagram-worthy photos. Hehe! Although I did come back with professional photography skills, the dark blurry days are over.
When I started here, I've using my Ipod Touch and sometimes (when it decides to turn on) my point and shoot Canon camera. I did not complain (or you might) because they are the only equiptment I got in my attempt to document my daily musings. But, God has been so good to those who patiently wait like me. I mentioned in my comeback post that I've been doing side jobs as a party planner, and through my little earnings I was able to purchase my dream camera! Wait for it... it's Lumix LX7. I haven't figured it out yet but I'm pretty amazed at how this little thing can produce vivid photos plus it is really handy. If you're planning to get one, super sulit!!

Selfie #1

Super Lumix has a sidekick too. I now update my blog using my newly acquired Samsung Note3 :) You may see photos here that will be taken using this amazing gadget. I'm actually thinking to start a series here called "My Life According to my Smarterphone". Sounds good, eh? I promise to refrain from too much selfie ;)

Selfie #2

So there you go my friends.. embracing the changes in my life and here on the blog too. Cheers to betterment! Weee! Power hug!

Taking a leap higher,

Keevee

Where to Eat When in Manila

I have a very serious, long-running commitment with food. During conversations of totally non-food related, food would somehow streams its way through the middle deceiving us with its magical power and we end up craving for something. If you follow me, aside from selfies (kidding!) I post photos of food I discover near or far. Movie dates don't impress me, take me to a pop-up or a hole-in-the-wall restaurant whether they serve beer with ice or not, you might have a chance for a second date ;)

In this entry, I'll compile my foodie adventures with a promise to constantly update it. For the love of food and the things that happen while eating!

SALT, Makati

Frozen brazo 

T-bone steak

I LOVE IT BECAUSE: Value for money -- yummy and affordable, cozy place and very accessible, friendly and accomodating staff, fast service.
PRICE: Php200-300 per pax
MUST-TRY: T-bone steak with BBQ sauce and frozen brazo
WIFI: not sure
TIME: 5pm to 1am
WHERE: 5887 Fermina St. corner Enriquez St., Poblacion, Makati
BEWARE: You might turn into a full-time carnivore with their offerings.

RAINTEA CONFECTIONARY, Quezon City

Pistachio French Macarons and so many colorful flavors to choose from.

I LOVE IT BECAUSE: They have different flavors of French macarons available six days a week.

PRICE: French macarons at Php35 each, ~Php 200-250 per pax

MUST TRY: French macarons, any flavor. Wintermelon milk tea (at zero sugar level) is also a must try together with Gyudon Beef Bowl.

WIFI: yes/super-fast and always available

TIME: 8am to 11pm Mondays - Saturdays

WHERE: 141 Katipunan Ave. St. Ignatius Village, Quezon City

BEWARE: Desserts? There could only be one... French Macarons.

BURP PASTA, Mandaluyong City

Blueberry cheesecake

I LOVE IT BECAUSE: They serve the best blueberry cheesecake, use mason jars and very near my office.
PRICE: Php 150-200 per pax
MUST-TRY: blueberry cheesecake, fish fillet, baked pasta and lemonade
WIFI: none
TIME: 8am to 10.30pm
WHERE: G/F Uptown Center, 56-58 Madison St., Mandaluyong City
BEWARE: blueberry cheesecake can be an addiction.

CHOCOLATE KISS, Quezon City

Devil's food cake.

I LOVE IT BECAUSE: There's variety in the menu and their unlimited homemade iced tea is ze bomb!
PRICE: Php 200-300 per pax
MUST-TRY: devil's food cake, homemade iced tea, any of their pasta, fish fillet with salsa
WIFI: none
TIME: 7am to 10pm
WHERE: 2F Bahay ng Alumni R. Magsaysay St. UP Diliman, Quezon City
BEWARE: You wake in the middle of the night wanting a glass of their iced tea.. but you live far away from the campus.

WOODEN SPOON, Quezon City

Fiesta rice.

I LOVE IT BECAUSE: It's quirky layout and they serve their own version of traditional Filipino dishes.

PRICE: Php 150-300

MUST-TRY: tinapa rice, tortang talong and kare-kare

WIFI: none

TIME: 10am to 10pm

WHERE: 329 Katipunan Ave., Quezon City

BEWARE: You might plan to go have lunch with family on a weekend and it's jampacked.

LUTONG BAHAY, Quezon City

Strawberry-mango shake

I LOVE IT BECAUSE: They offer a variety of yummy, student budget-friendly fresh fruit shakes.

PRICE: Php30-60

MUST-TRY: You can never go wrong with your favorite fruit in season.

WIFI: none

TIME: 10am to 9pm

WHERE: UP Diliman (back of post office)

BEWARE: sugar overload in a cup or cups ;)

Oh Hello Again, A Catch-up Post!

I know.. it's been a long time. Really long. Let's not count the days.. errr months.

Needless to say, I got caught up with a lot of new things happening in my life. I've mentioned here before that I'm visiting America. And in between work, and more work in order to finance my trip, it's finally happening exactly one month from now. Whew! Where did the time go? Maybe I did a lot of changes with my lifestyle the past months and totally rocked them ;)

Because of my US trip which roughly gave me about six months to prepare, I have to work double time and save more than I used to. I had to give up on a lot of socializing and random purchases like local flights on sale, washi tapes, scarf and French macarons. You get the picture? For about 4 years now, I'm not much of a big spender so little things like those are a luxury and a bit difficult to let go. Aside from my day job, I self-advertise myself as a party host/planner/coordinator/crafter to my Facebook friends.

The best reward is when people are grateful for your help. That's me from a destination wedding last March.

Happy to report, I have commissioned five events in the first half of 2014 and even have the need to turn down some offers to concentrate on the preparation of my long haul trip! I'm truly grateful to my first clients who trusted me. They made a big contribution in making one of my travel dreams come true.

Travel fund jar for plane tickets and a Lumix LX7.

All the hardwork, sleepless nights and tight muscles are totally worth it. No amount of stress can shake the reality that I'll soon be ticking off America in my travel bucketlist. 

Aside from happy, exciting changes at work... I also made an effort to try new workouts. Side thought: it seems like I love working this season, "work per se" and "working out" if you miss those out. Hehe. I did continue on boxing at the gym while my vouchers last. I tried pushing my core to its limit by training for the Triton Dragonboat Team every Sundays. I also took a 7-day bikram yoga which is totally addicting if only I could afford the unlimited package rates. I did my best to run and do 25-minute T25 workouts at home. Guess what, I'm not sure if my weight lowered but I feel better and stronger. To add, I lessen eating pork and having desserts. I eat breakfast at home and packed my lunch almost everyday.

Paddles up!

Outdoor running is ♡.

Our favorite line is "Concentrate. Meditate. Push"

Another positive change this 2014 is focusing on what God wants me to do. I actually have a virtue theme, OBEDIENCE. Without the grace of God, it is impossible for my bull-headed self to obey whole-heartedly. Praises to Him! I was able to find a Victory group (a bible study group with about 8 eight ladies) whom I shared life with and have been my sisters in this walk of faith. I continued to attend my Wednesdates with friends to talk about Jesus while sharing blueberry cheesecake. Also, I enlisted my talent at the Production Ministry.

Oh the joy of serving at our local church.

Sharing God's truth to these wonderful ladies.

Burpmates forever.

This pretty much summed up what I've been up to when I went MIA from this little space. Good times, good vibes!

Oh, miss you! I'll be right back soon to share my preparations and how God blesses people to bless me too! Thank you for sticking around ♡


Always,

Keevee

Season of Newness

current obsession: Polyvore. they're pretty and totally not related to my post :p

With all the open tabs in my computer right now, beautiful things are keeping me sane. If you care, I'm pretty swamped with a lot of things lately (as many of you can relate to). But as they say, whatever season we are in, we have to make the most of it. So, I'm here thriving to the best I can. I'm in a season of newness, folks. New role at work, new learning, new goals, new demands, new people to deal/learn with and the list goes on. I will never deny that I have doubted myself a couple of times. Luckily, I have supportive people around me. I'm trying my very best to just shut up and absorb from the "people who have been there". Another humbling experience and I'm counting it as another success on my list.

Life's still beautiful and crazy too, in my side of world. I hope you are having blast wherever you are!

Enjoying every season,

Keevee

Thrifting & Creating

I don't usually shop for clothes now. I'm done with that phase in my life where I plot every mall sale or bazaar event in my calendar. After so many years of accumulating material goods, I felt bummed by how much I spent on these temporary things rather than investing in real life treasures such as traveling. 

I started making little changes with my spending 3 years ago or earlier. I tried to forego buying new stuff while still maintaining the "fassshyownista" in me. I pretty do a great job mix matching my 3-week worth of clothes and accessorizing. I also made this annual clothing swap with a friend - each of you get a new set without spending a single dime. Once in a while I go to ukay-ukay where I find vintage and boho pieces that I really adore. Sometimes, I get lucky that my friends are so generous to extend their loot of goodies for me! How can I possibly not look good even with a  little budget on clothing? I just need to make the best out of what I have. Speaking of which, my friends at Pinay Curvies have this challenge of sharing something old from your treasures. I thought of joining in to show my support and encouragement that being beautiful and fashionable need not to be expensive especially if you are living in this big city where every price of your basic needs goes up.

I found this really flowy, vintage skirt from one of my ukay-ukay trips and had an idea of making it into a new dress. Thank you to my trusted modista for making it possible!

Investment: PHP 70 skirt + PHP 80 modista fee = PHP 150

It's Thursday today and consider this my #TBT entry. Hehe! This was me in 2012 for a trip in Bacolod.

What do you think about my little saving tip, ladies? :)

Keeping it real & simple,

Keevee

Getting a US Visa for Filipinos

WARNING: This post might contain excessive exclamation marks! :))

Hooooray!!!! I already got my US tourist visa last Thursday (January 23). Imagine my excitement!!! My trip to the US in September of 2014 will come true! Another HOOORAAAAY for THURSDAYS or for every day! <3

Let me first share with all of you how on earth did I ever thought of coming to the States side, given that I'm an independent city girl scrimping on a little budget. Currently, I am a happy local traveler, snapping photos here and there, capturing the beauty of what God has gifted the Philippines. However, it seems like life has a grander plan to offer. I was invited by my kindergarten BFF to be one of her bridesmaids at her wedding in California. I told my relatives and other friends who are based there my intention to visit and they too are so thrilled to accommodate me. Isn't that amazing?! That's the birth of my yearning to visit the US of A.

With great conviction, I browsed through the US Embassy website and read the steps carefully. When it is your turn to do this, please do not be intimidated. The words written there are actually it and can totally help you in the process. Click on what type of visa you will be applying for (again, read with a lot of care). You can save your application form, in case you cannot finish it in one sitting. Just take note of the application ID that will be provided - write it down or print it so you won't forget the next time you log in. 

My application form is called DS-160 for non-immigrants. I logged in last January 6 (Monday) and was able to finish completing all my information by January 8 (Wednesday). If you are a "sigurista" or OC like me, you can also start the filling out the form and go through each step. It gives you more time to read all the tips (do's and don'ts) especially on the correct photo to upload. Or you may go ahead and have your photo taken (does not need professionally, as long as it meets the embassy's set standard) and pay for the visa application fee through BPI or Bancnet then start your application form. With this, you will be able to finish the form and schedule your interview in one session. TIP: Read, read, read carefully and make sure you understand. Follow the instructions, as stated. When in doubt, you can always call their hotline and a friendly representative will be happy to assist you. I once called to verify which machine validated number from the deposit slip will be used to schedule an interview. I felt relieved to get an accurate information rather than second guessing myself. 

With the application form, it seeks to know your personal information and your intention to visit the US. TIP: BE HONEST. If you are, then there's no need for you to worry that you might forget what you wrote down or be afraid with the questions thrown by the Consul during the interview. As it will be based on your information, nothing else. If you are not, most likely the Consul will be able to determine, so choose honesty. There was a question asking about who is my point of contact when I arrive. For my case, since I am flying solo to meet relatives and friends there I answered my cousin's information. They say, it is risky to tell the US embassy that you know people in the US - as this may strengthen my ties there and I might opt to migrate. I think otherwise, though. It is true that I'll be living with my cousin when I get there so there is no point in lying. Also, I'm not willing to spend a dime for my hotel accommodation (because I have the privilege of free stay), I'd rather spend my pocket money on food and my quirks. Hehe! If you are truly traveling alone or with family and you plan to book your tours/accommodation, just indicate that fact too. 

As I've mentioned in my previous posts, I was able to get an interview schedule a week after the completion of my application. I chose the earliest available time (January 16, 7.30AM) as I need to know the result before February 14, in time for the travel expo -- see, I'm already claiming it even during the process :) I cannot confirm how many schedules are there in a day but the first is at 6.30AM.

If you already have an interview schedule, the Embassy requests you to be at the gate 15 minutes before the listed time in your appointment letter. As for me, I was excited and heard the advice from friends to go there as early as 5.00AM. However, TIP: you don't need to be that early unless you want to avoid the heavy traffic in that area or you want to relax with beautiful sunrise in front of Manila Bay or you just want to give the bystanders an opportunity to earn (andaming negosyo doon, from monoblock chairs while waiting, human counter - for your mobile phones/electronic devices, food/drinks to passport size photos). I turned my sleepy-because-I-was-TOO-early situation into something fun. I have been able to observe and listen to different stories of every applicant I've met, so sulit pa rin ang paggising ko ng maaga besides kabado din ako and it helps to know na I'm not alone :)

TIP: Before leaving the house for your interview, make sure you have the following documents - interview appointment letter, DS-160 confirmation page, valid passport, one 2” x 2” photo, and all prior passports and U.S. visas, if available. Along with the required documents, I also brought some of my personal documents in case I will be asked (better to be ready than sorry). These are NOT necessary but I  chose to bring them: certificate of employment indicating tenure, current position title, basic salary and that my company is allowing me to have my 3-week vacation leave; 2013 ITR, invitation letter from my bride-to-be friend and itinerary; and photos. I decided to leave my passbook at home as I am not confident to talk about it. 

After the waiting outside the Embassy gate, applicants are called per batch according to their schedule. My batch was called 30 minutes before. There is a scanning facility to detect any electronic device, so double check your bag or pockets before entering. TIP: Do not bring any electronic device with you, no matter how small it is. It was an easy-breezy queue. There were staff everywhere to make sure you are at the correct line and have the needed document. You can take a CR  or coffee break before entering the main hall where the interview is conducted. Again, the batch will be called by the marshals when it is the time. You may have a chit-chat with other applicants too, to ease whatever you are feeling that day. It will also help you and others if you remain in a positive, happy attitude rather than infecting others with negativity and anxiousness. TIP: Follow the marshals. When in doubt, ask!

The time has come when your batch is already called to enter the main hall. Another round of bag checking then you will be asked to fall in line for Step 1 - screening. I was only asked about the purpose of my travel and how long will I be staying in the US. After which, you can take a seat but you cannot relax as you need to watch out for your number on the highly installed monitors. The numbers are flashed randomly. TIP: PAY ATTENTION

Step 2 is the finger scanning. You will be asked to state your name and birthday before the actual finger scanning. If your hands are sweaty like mine, don't worry they will give you tissue paper to dry them first :P TIP: Your DS-160 confirmation page should be stamped with a red "CAPTURED" after this step. If not, tell the staff and they will gladly do so. 

You are now ready for Step 3 - The Interview. This may take a long wait than the usual queues so be patient while fixing your eyes on the monitor for your number. You may hear the interviews of the applicants before you - whether pleasant or unpleasant result. I chose to only hear the pleasant ones to psyched me up and also, to have a grateful heart for others. It helped me calm down as I approach the window where the assigned Consul for me is. As I heard more varied scenarios, I can say that there is no exact formula on how to get a visa approval. I don't think it depends on the Consul's mood or yours, or the answers you gave or how you answered or your capacity to afford your trip. I say, if it's yours then be it. You can only pray and hope for the best. If not it's not yet your time to visit the US of A, it's not the end of the world. You can always save and re-apply :)

You may see below how my interview with the Consul went, in case you are really curious. I tried to remember it as verbatim as possible :P TIP: Just relax. Be yourself and listen to the questions. Provide short but complete answers. Be polite. Enjoy the moment!

         Me: Good morning!

            C: Hi, good morning. How are you today?

         Me: I'm good... and excited!

            C: Oh, wow! That's good. Tell me about the purpose of your travel.

         Me: I was invited by my childhood best friend to be one of her bridesmaids at her wedding and I look forward to attend.

            C: That's nice. In which state?

         Me: California. (pause -- she seems to be scrolling my DS-160 form in her monitor)

            C: What do you do now? Where do you work?

         Me: I work as a Senior Account Manager in Jobstreet.com (interrupts me)

            C: What again?

         Me: Jobstreet.com Philippines.

            C: Okay, what's that? Tell me about your job.

         Me: It is an online portal where companies post their job ads. I work with recruitment agencies who help Filipinos find their job overseas.

            C: For how long have you been doing that?

         Me: Going 3 years now.

            C: How much do you earn?

         Me: Every month, I get a salary of xxx plus incentives and commissions of xxx.

            C: So, you get an estimate of xxx per month?

         Me: Yes.

            C: What do you do before that?

         Me: I worked for ABC company where we import candies and chocolates to be sold here in the Philippines.

            C: Do you travel around?

         Me: Yes, locally. And in Singapore for my birthday last year.

            C: What did you do there for your birthday?

         Me: I met with my friends who work there and did all the touristy activities.

            C: Did you travel alone?

         Me: Yes but I've met with several friends when I went there.

            C: What's the occupation of your friend who is about to get married?

         Me: Pharmacist.

            C: What about the husband to be?

         Me: He is a photographer.

            C: Do you have relatives there?

         Me: Yes.

            C: Are you married?

         Me: Not yet.

            C: Do you own a house? Where do you live here?

         Me: No, I rent an apartment in Quezon City.

            C: How long will you stay in the US?

         Me: Just for 3 weeks. My boss did not allow me to extend my vacation.

            C: Okay, you can wait for your visa to be delivered in 5 days.

         Me: Really?!

            C: Yes!!! Congratulations! Thank you, safe travels.

         Me: Wow!!! Thank you very much.

Wow!!! As I find my way out, I'm smiling up to my ears and I can't stop babbling, "thank you God. Praises to You, only You!". I was nearly in tears as I have no one with me to share such precious moment and I don't have my phone to inform my family about the good news. Then, the guard randomly asked how it went and he extended his congratulations. I'm overwhelmed!!! The two female strangers from the queue earlier saw me walking along Roxas Boulevard. We decided to have a little coffee date in celebration of that day. I'm also thankful for the experience. It pushed me to trust and inspire other people too.  

As I've said, there is no known formula in getting a US visa. All we have to do is pray for a grateful heart no matter what the result will be and to trust that God is in control. He is our deliverer!
          
Here's to inspiring you to overcome your fear (of applying a US visa), to make the experience fun than terrifying and most of all, to remain in faith as you wait for the result.


Faith and love,

Keevee

Breakthrough upon Breakthrough

A few days ago during the annual prayer and fasting at my church, I shared with you that I strongly believed for a US visa grant and many others.

I was told by my small group leader before that when writing and praying for faith goals, it should be something I cannot do alone, something near to impossible if I rely on my own understanding and actions. So, I let go and let God. I humbly asked Him to impress in my heart what He wants me to do this 2014. I steadfastly wrote them one by one in my journal – shared one or two with my friends, prayer partners and on this little online space.  It was difficult to share something this personal here, opening up is a breakthrough in itself. Most of all, it was scary knowing that I can be judged or be face-palmed when it doesn't turn out to be as expected. But, I obeyed (with sweaty palms) because I know that my God is faithful, generous, mighty, deliverer and awesome! I stood in faith that whatever the outcome, it will be a testimony of my obedience to God and His faithfulness in my life. It was indeed a humbling experience. 

During Day 1 (of 5 prayer and fasting), Pastor Robert challenged us that if our faith goals are not answered by God, will we still fix our eyes on Him? It was totally a heart check-up for me. I was comforted by the passage and promise in Exodus 14:14 “For the Lord will fight for you, be still”. I prayed that He change my heart to see His goodness more than His blessings. 

Fast forward to Day 3, I was able to pay at the bank and finish my DS-160 form. To my relief, upon scheduling my interview I saw that there were available slots for the following week contrary to what others told me that it will take about a month or two. It must be the big guy up there! Woot!

A week after, my breakthrough day came. It was a beautiful, cool morning of January 16. I was scheduled for 7.30am but I was there as early as 5.30am. I didn't waste any time while waiting. I kept on seeking God. I kept on praying. I am grateful and will always be. That was the attitude I had - I chose gratitude over doubt or fear. Finally, I heard the Consul "You can wait for your visa to be delivered in 5 days. Congratulations. Safe travels!". I can't believe it ! I am ecstatic that moment and lasted for days up to now. I just uttered "Praise God. All the glory to You, only You".

Next question that popped into my mind is "How will I be able to finance this grand trip?" Remember my travel fund jar? Happy to report that it started to be filled with commission fees from hosting/event planning opportunities entrusted to me by my friends. Yay! I'm finally starting to get paid for things I love to do - it was a good affirmation also. 

Another breakthrough came - a financial provision! God is truly generous and blesses His children. I was told by my supervisor that my individual development plan is on to the next level. I will be assigned to another role which will be both challenging and rewarding. My current salary can be doubled! Yes, x 2! Of course, it will require a lot of time and effort but still... it is another opportunity that I have been waiting for all these years. My God is giving me unlimited possibilities!

Lastly, my story (particularly on how I got my US visa) is a testimony to a lot of people - to believe and let God. Many have heard the news. They shared their genuine happiness to me and allowed me to inspire/bless their life with mine. This is the greatest breakthrough above all - honoring God and ministering to people.


** I will share my full visa experience plus tips in my next post in the hope of helping others get theirs too without fear.


Glorifying God,

Keevee

4 Simple Goals for 2014

I'm a goal-setter! I work best when I've written down my goals - be it daily, weekly, monthly or quarterly. 

Fourteen days (14) of 2014 have passed and I just can't contain how those days came by like a lightning! I'm not complaining in any way but my impression is that 2014 will be both challenging and exciting. Let's just say, I have received breakthroughs already and I'm ready for more! :)

For me not to be caught up in all the hullabaloos, to keep my cool and focus intact, I'm sharing my 4 simple goals for 2014 with you:

1. Be always present. 

I do not only mean reporting to work on time, 5 days a week. More so to be present with the people that matter most, in their milestones (both big and small) in life. You know how it feels like when you are invited to a party and every detail seems to be taking your attention from the celebrant? I want to make a reform on that - to take home more shared stories than photos I took. I'm more interested now in creating deeper conversations and more of life with family and friends.

2. Be more of a home-buddy.

I was never one. I'm the kind who is always on the go. And this 2014, I want to learn how to value rest and stillness and relaxation at home. I only intend to visit two new places this year - USA and BKK. I told myself, not to book local plane rides until the end of December. Haha! My overseas travel plans are okay for now :P It means more time for my quiet sessions, reading, writing, cooking, gardening, DIY projects and perhaps, cocktail-making too. Friends are welcome to visit me!

3. Be consistent with my fitness plan.

Eat more greens daily. Drink up smoothies everyday. Cut some meat and rice and sugar. Run every Saturday and Sunday morning. Attend boxing classes thrice a week. Do yoga at home. 

4. Be a saver, not a spender.

I'm always kuripot but I have hoarder tendencies. I need to work hard on this by starting to unsubscribe with most of online sites I follow. Hihi! I also plan to continue the "clothing exchange" thing with some of my girlfriends. And oh, I should also put to good use the craft materials I hoarded in 2012. I'd love to grow my herb garden - both healthy and economical. I also started a TMF (The Me Fund) saving plan with my friends. 

That's my list. Wish me luck! Care to share your goals for 2014 too? 

Happy goal-setting,

Keevee

The Highlights of My 2013 (August - December)

Hooray for part 2 of what 2013 has been like for me! I wrote about Part 1 yesterday.

Looking back at each month got me really sentimental. I lived 2013 the way I know best how and it made me really crazy happy!

AUGUST

 To be consistent with my simplified efforts last month, I once again intensified my love affair with Sunday markets. I did my best to wake up early morning for a good run, then have my good-for-the-heart breakfast and take home some fresh produce for the week’s meal plan. Not only did I shop for organic foods there, I also tried my luck in growing herbs in my own garden. I started with basil, thyme, oregano and mints. I need to learn more about this, though. Excited for this home garden project this February! <3

with my household

Another milestone in the de Vera family is celebrating Nanay Roming’s 89^th birthday. We are so grateful for her life and her strength to carry on!

Nanay with her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

SEPTEMBER

In the Philippines, September is one of the much anticipated months as it is a beginning of Christmas. Yes, we celebrate early (and lengthy)! Also, in September we celebrated my Momsie's 53rd birthday here in Manila with the Napolitanos. It was a perfect excuse for more DIY, home-cooking and reunion with relatives.

Mama and the grandparents

There was such a bummer moment for me too when I lost my wallet after a good spa date with my friend. I know must be so relaxed that I dropped it while hopping into the car. But, the next day a man called my office (it pays off to have business cards inside your wallet). In the end, I got my wallet back with everything in it. A true testimony that there are still good people here in Earth ;)

This is where we had lunch when I got my wallet back. Good life!

OCTOBER

I fell in love with boxing!

with my boxing buddy

NOVEMBER

It’s my birthday month and I went on for my first and solo international trip. I met my friends in Singapore and they are so kind that they blessed me with almost everything I need for my 5-day vacation. Also, I was able to meet a lot of tourists too! I’ll write more about it soon :)

giddy me!

The Halloween party I organized together with my “Hallie” friends that made us move mountains to push through. Glad to know that my colleagues had fun too!!!

it was a masquerade party :)

I joined my first badminton tournament. And I think I did great! Planning to join a badminton group this year to enhance my smashing abilities :P

 

our game-on face

Yehey!!! Planned and did our first out of town trip with de Vera cousins in Tagaytay. We made it! Looking forward for more trips with them :P

 

in costumes!

DECEMBER

December was bittersweet for me. There were difficult decisions to make in order to truly see what is best for me and us. It has its fair share of ups and downs but nonetheless, it was worth the ride. The love from family and friends kept me alive and want to live for more!

Aaaaaaaand finally, we were able to convince my parents to spend their Christmas holidays here in Manila. We all had fun just being together and exploring the city. This experience is a perfect year-ender! <3

Gosh! 2013 I really, really love you. 

2014, beat that! :)

For a victorious 2013,

Keevee